Ever feel like you’re constantly trying to pick up after them and maintain their stuff?
Hey, guess what–me, too. It’s kind of like shoveling snow during a blizzard.
At my first NAPO Conference in 2004 (a few years before I had children) I took a workshop called ‘Organizing the Family’ given by Professional Organizer, Allison Carter of Digital Life Organizing. In that terrific workshop, I learned something that I still remember almost ten years later. I’m sharing this with you in the hopes that you will use it to make your life as a parent a little easier.
In the workshop, I learned the five steps to follow to teach your child mastery of almost any task.
Write these five steps on a post-it and stick it where you can see it. Or, write them in an app on your smartphone. Jot them down somewhere you can access them easily. You’re going to want to refer to these steps often. Remember, they’re going to make your life as a parent easier (If you’re reading this and you’re not a parent, pass them on to someone who is!). Here they are…
To Get Your Kids to Master ______________ …
Step 1. Demonstrate the task you’d like your child to master
Step 2. Do the task with them
Step 3. Supervise your child doing the task
Step 4. Let them do the task alone
Step 5. Supervise your child occasionally
What are some skills your kids can master using these five steps?
• Putting away their toys
• Doing/folding their own laundry
• Setting the table for a family meal
• Using a knife
• Sorting and purging their school papers
• Household cleaning/gardening chores
Each step will take some time, effort and patience on your part but in the end, the investment of time will be worth it. And believe me–your future sons and daughters-in-law will thank you.
Thank you, Allison Carter for sharing your wisdom!